My 2013 Summer Reading List

Much to my surprise, a few people have emailed me asking for my summer reading list.   So I spent some time going through the books that I hope to conquer this summer.   I usually manage to get through most of them, but you never how things go – and sometimes the summer reading list rolls into fall and winter.    There are many books worth reading, but these are my choices, a mix of fiction and non-fiction, new and classics, for this summer along with a brief description and a link to each book on Amazon:

1) 21 by Peter H. Kriendler

The story of New York’s ’21’ Club is the story of American glamour in the twentieth century. In his star-studded memoir, saloonkeeper Peter Kriendler—younger brother of Jack Kriendler, cofounder of ’21’—paints a spellbinding portrait of the club through its early years, its birth as a Greenwich Village speakeasy, its move to midtown during Prohibition, the tough days of the Great Depression, the dazzling Camelot nights, and the swinging go-go years as it became America’s most legendary restaurant and a second home to the most powerful people in business, politics, and entertainment.


2) The Ocean at the End of the Lane: A Novel by Neil Gaiman

An Amazon Best Book of the Month, June 2013: Neil Gaiman’s intent was simple: to write a short story. What he ended up with instead was The Ocean at the of the Lane–his first adult novel since Anansi Boys came out in 2005, and a narrative so thoughtful and thrilling that it’s as difficult to stop reading as it was for Gaiman to stop writing. Forty years ago, our narrator, who was then a seven-year-old boy, unwittingly discovered a neighboring family’s supernatural secret. What happens next is an imaginative romp through otherwordly adventure that could only come from Gaiman’s magical mind. Childhood innocence is tested and transcended as we see what getting between ancient, mystic forces can cost, as well as what can be gained from the power of true friendship. The result is a captivating tale that is equal parts sweet, sad, and spooky. –Robin A. Rothman


3) Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald

F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote in a friend’s copy of Tender Is the Night, “If you liked The Great Gatsby, for God’s sake read this. Gatsby was a tour de force but this is a confession of faith.” Set in the South of France in the decade after World War I, Tender Is the Night is the story of a brilliant and magnetic psychiatrist named Dick Diver; the bewitching, wealthy, and dangerously unstable mental patient, Nicole, who becomes his wife; and the beautiful, harrowing ten-year pas de deux they act out along the border between sanity and madness.


4) Ungifted: Intelligence Redefined by Scott Barry Kaufman

In Ungifted, cognitive psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman—who was relegated to special education as a child—sets out to show that the way we interpret traditional metrics of intelligence is misguided. Kaufman explores the latest research in genetics and neuroscience, as well as evolutionary, developmental, social, positive, and cognitive psychology, to challenge the conventional wisdom about the childhood predictors of adult success. He reveals that there are many paths to greatness, and argues for a more holistic approach to achievement that takes into account each young person’s personal goals, individual psychology, and developmental trajectory. In so doing, he increases our appreciation for the intelligence and diverse strengths of prodigies, savants, and late bloomers, as well as those with dyslexia, autism, schizophrenia, and ADHD.


5) TransAtlantic: A Novel by Colum Mccann

In the National Book Award–winning Let the Great World Spin, Colum McCann thrilled readers with a marvelous high-wire act of fiction that The New York Times Book Review called “an emotional tour de force.” Now McCann demonstrates once again why he is one of the most acclaimed and essential authors of his generation with a soaring novel that spans continents, leaps centuries, and unites a cast of deftly rendered characters, both real and imagined.

Newfoundland, 1919. Two aviators—Jack Alcock and Arthur Brown—set course for Ireland as they attempt the first nonstop flight across the Atlantic Ocean, placing their trust in a modified bomber to heal the wounds of the Great War.

Dublin, 1845 and ’46. On an international lecture tour in support of his subversive autobiography, Frederick Douglass finds the Irish people sympathetic to the abolitionist cause—despite the fact that, as famine ravages the countryside, the poor suffer from hardships that are astonishing even to an American slave.

New York, 1998. Leaving behind a young wife and newborn child, Senator George Mitchell departs for Belfast, where it has fallen to him, the son of an Irish-American father and a Lebanese mother, to shepherd Northern Ireland’s notoriously bitter and volatile peace talks to an uncertain conclusion.

These three iconic crossings are connected by a series of remarkable women whose personal stories are caught up in the swells of history. Beginning with Irish housemaid Lily Duggan, who crosses paths with Frederick Douglass, the novel follows her daughter and granddaughter, Emily and Lottie, and culminates in the present-day story of Hannah Carson, in whom all the hopes and failures of previous generations live on. From the loughs of Ireland to the flatlands of Missouri and the windswept coast of Newfoundland, their journeys mirror the progress and shape of history. They each learn that even the most unassuming moments of grace have a way of rippling through time, space, and memory.


 6) Post Office by Charles Bukowski

“It began as a mistake.” By middle age, Henry Chinaski has lost more than twelve years of his life to the U.S. Postal Service. In a world where his three true, bitter pleasures are women, booze, and racetrack betting, he somehow drags his hangover out of bed every dawn to lug waterlogged mailbags up mud-soaked mountains, outsmart vicious guard dogs, and pray to survive the day-to-day trials of sadistic bosses and certifiable coworkers. This classic 1971 novel—the one that catapulted its author to national fame—is the perfect introduction to the grimly hysterical world of legendary writer, poet, and Dirty Old Man Charles Bukowski and his fictional alter ego, Chinaski.


 7) For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway

In 1937 Ernest Hemingway traveled to Spain to cover the civil war there for the North American Newspaper Alliance. Three years later he completed the greatest novel to emerge from “the good fight,” For Whom the Bell Tolls. The story of Robert Jordan, a young American in the International Brigades attached to an antifascist guerilla unit in the mountains of Spain, it tells of loyalty and courage, love and defeat, and the tragic death of an ideal. In his portrayal of Jordan’s love for the beautiful Maria and his superb account of El Sordo’s last stand, in his brilliant travesty of La Pasionaria and his unwillingness to believe in blind faith, Hemingway surpasses his achievement in The Sun Also Rises and A Farewell to Arms to create a work at once rare and beautiful, strong and brutal, compassionate, moving and wise. “If the function of a writer is to reveal reality,” Maxwell Perkins wrote to Hemingway after reading the manuscript, “no one ever so completely performed it.” Greater in power, broader in scope, and more intensely emotional than any of the author’s previous works, it stands as one of the best war novels of all time.






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Why did the dentist use his iPhone to take pictures of my mouth?

So I had a toothache, and I went to the dentist. He told me that I had an abscess and required minor surgery. Shouldn’t be a big deal.

Next thing I know he’s got pliers and wrenches and all sorts of contraptions holding my mouth open while he digs around with a pitch fork. Then I hear him say “Oh no! Do you see that?” to his assistant.

Then he says “I gotta a get a picture of that” and pulls out his iPhone. And he tells me, with all this crap in my mouth, to turn right. “No more right,” he says “As far as I can go.” And then he snaps the picture.

A few minutes later another dentist walks by and the guy working on me says “hey come here… Gotta see this.” And that dentist comes in and says he’s gotta get a picture. So he pulls out his iPhone and tells me to turn my head right and open wide, as far I can go. And he takes the picture.

Well, this all freaks me out because why are 2 dentists taking pictures of my mouth? I couldn’t ask until it was over, and then I said “Did you ever see anything like what was in my mouth before?”

He says, “Oh yeah, all the time. It’s my job.” But the pictures? “Oh, you are perfectly normal,” he says. “I just wanted a picture.”

So if you see a really gross picture of someone’s mouth on Facebook and I’m tagged in it, now you know why.


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I get on the subway, and the woman who has been pregnant for the last four years gets in my car and starts asking for money again…. She moves on, and we get to 59th Street where another woman gets on and proceeds to tell us that she lives with her 99 year old mom who needs surgery, but she also needs money for the surgery… Hate to be a cynic, but somehow I didn’t buy that story. Then at 50th Street, a guy walking with a cane gets on the train and lays it out…. “I am a drug addict and I need money. I need a dollar, a quarter, a dime. Whatever you got, I’ll take. Just give me some money and I’ll say God Bless You.” It’s always interesting underground.

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My 2012 Summer Reading List

I try to make a list of books every summer. I usually get through most of the books, although not always before summer is over. Here is my list for this summer. Hope you get to read a few good books, and please share your recommendations on GoodReads!

1. Night by Elie Wiesel

2. Fearless by Eric Blehm

3. The Real Crash by Peter Schiff

4. In One Person by John Irving

5. The President’s Club by Nancy Gibbs

6. The Shoemaker’s Wife by Adriana Trigiani

7. Ulysses by James Joyce

8. King Lear by William Shakespeare

9. The Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande

10. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald

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Remember Gary Papa

So it was approaching midnight on a Saturday night and I was home just hanging out. Single guy then, but pretty beat from working overnights. The phone rang. “Yo kid,” the voice said. It was Gary Papa.

On the sideline with Gary Papa prior to the NFC Championship game between the Philadelphia Eagles and Carolina Panthers on January 18, 2004.

“What the hell are you doing home on a Saturday night?” He knew I had no life on that overnight shift. Freaking brutal shift for anyone who works it.

“Why don’t you come over and watch the fight?” he asked.  I don’t remember who was fighting, but it was a big one – One of those pay-per-view deals.

So I went over to his house, and a bunch of people were there watching the fight on one of those big screen televisions – not an HDTV, but a big screen tv. It was a fun time.   A night that I always remembered.

Why am I telling you this story? Because Gary Papa never forgot anyone, and so I don’t want you to forget him. Please make a donation to the 2012 Gary Papa Run and help fight prostate cancer. Below is the link to the 6abc team page, which still needs more than $10,000 to reach its goal. Please donate and make a difference.

Click here to donate to the 6abc team!


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